I just need to get this out of my head….
I received a letter from Eric’s mom yesterday saying:
“Well congratulations on putting your son’s father in jail! I wonder how you are going to explain it to your son if his father dies of congestive heart failure while he’s put away because of your GREED for money! Do my family a favor and DO NOT attend Heather’s birthday party. You are not wanted.”
It was signed by her so there is no reason to doubt it’s origin. (PS-Heather is the daughter of Eric’s sister, whom I have been close with since High school. This will be her first birthday.) What it did give me was her current address, which I didn’t have before. Stupid ass… she addressed the envelope fully, which means I now can send her certified legal documents ordering her to stop harassing me.
I don’t really know what action I’ll take, if any. I need to think about things first. My number one concern is that she will somehow hurt Dryden, either emotionally or physically. I am not so much worried about her being a bitch to me, nmeh, whatever. I can deal… But if she does anything to jeopardize my son’s happiness, I’ll find a way to make sure she stops…
As far as Heather’s birthday goes… I spoke with Eric’s sister last night and she said she will talk with her husband and see what they will do. I suggested that we meet the weekend after the party to do something together for Heather’s birthday… I refuse to chance her first birthday party being ruined by her cunt of a grandmother. And yes…. Eric’s mother would do that, she would throw a fit and scream and flip out regardless of the situation. She has BPD … but will not seek counseling or take meds so the whole family suffers.
(cue the music)
These are the days of our lives……
August 19, 2008 at 5:24 pm
i loved that
August 19, 2008 at 8:33 pm
Perhaps if she had done a better job of teacher her grandson’s father responsibility . . .
. . . oh right, not her fault.
August 19, 2008 at 8:34 pm
umm that should have been teaching
August 20, 2008 at 4:25 pm
This lady is bad news Joe. She has called the cops on her own daughter because she wouldn’t return her phone calls.
I swear, the rest of us just want to be “normal” but instead our lives run like an ongoing episode of The Jerry Springer Show!
Shakes her head… I have to laugh or I’d cry….
March 9, 2009 at 11:17 pm
wow…my mom has the same immaturity of a six year old and the first paragraph, she would say and do the exact same thing.
It got to be so much drama that I had to tell her that i didn’t want to talk to her again. she stressed me out to the point where i checked myself into a mental hospital for a week.
A month ago, I find out a police officer is looking for me because she filed a missing persons report. She thought the cops were going to make me call her. I’m 23! hahahaha
May 24, 2009 at 8:21 pm
My ex stole MY truck when he left. It was in MY name, I made the payments, but cops called it ‘civil’ because we lived together. He denied taking it even though the cop told him if he did have it he wouldn’t be in trouble for it. (Pasco County Sherriff’s dept in FL, then ‘forgot’ to put it in the stolen vehicle database)
Mike SWORE he didn’t have it,so, if he didn’t that means it’s stolen, right?
I have to report it stolen then. I’m liable for it.
But his mother says I tried to have him arrested on a ‘trumped up charge.’
If he didn’t have it, how is me reporting it stolen trying to have HIM arrested?
But the druggie brother and sister-in-law, and the drunken troll of a mother call me bipolar.
He abandoned it in a Wal-mart parking lot in Ocala, Florida to be towed and eventually repossessed.
What is this country coming to?